Quote - * It is rude to ask that the readme clearly state commercial or non-commercial use.
...really?

I'd say something to the effect of: 
"freebie providers, please make the nature of use clear up front, I find it hard frustrating and time consuming to sort through it all" -  is definately not rude.

Something to the effect of:
"free stuff,non-commercial only.just bloody well say so up front....I am getting really pissed off with free stuff......Get it bloody sorted. I have better things to do with my time." 

That's pretty darn rude approach, IMO. Not the type of approach I would recommend to anyone seeking resolution of the matter.

If you were in a restaurant and they made an error on the order... do you recommend jumping up and down and attacking the waitress or a waiter for screwing it up, or would you politely bring it to their attention that things aren't as you ordered them?

Usually, I detest people whom go for the waiter/waitresses jugular when a restaurant makes a mistake.

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