"Usually, I detest people whom go for the waiter/waitresses jugular when a restaurant makes a mistake"

I agree 100%.  Actually I am adverse to going for the jugular in most circumstances.  This includes forums ;)
 
It's certainly sticky here lately.  Walking on eggshells to make sure that however you word something is the most acceptable possible version.  I have to say again it would benefit the forum greatly if people stopped looking through a post for a reason to disagree or be offended - looking for a negative - because if you approach it that way you will find it.  A better approach is to attempt to put yourself in that persons shoes and try to see what was meant by the statement.  It's hard to do sometimes but the outcome is more positive and community like for everyone.
Gunna go ahead and take my hippie banner off now =D

I am:  aka Velocity3d