Quote - "Usually, I detest people whom go for the waiter/waitresses jugular when a restaurant makes a mistake"

I agree 100%.  Actually I am adverse to going for the jugular in most circumstances.  This includes forums ;)
 
It's certainly sticky here lately.  Walking on eggshells to make sure that however you word something is the most acceptable possible version.  I have to say again it would benefit the forum greatly if people stopped looking through a post for a reason to disagree or be offended - looking for a negative - because if you approach it that way you will find it.  A better approach is to attempt to put yourself in that persons shoes and try to see what was meant by the statement.  It's hard to do sometimes but the outcome is more positive and community like for everyone.
Gunna go ahead and take my hippie banner off now =D

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I'm not about to be willing to quietly swallow and bow my head to what appears to be habitual beligerance.

When someone walks in punching, I'll punch back in defense before I ask what they want. Why? Because I don't care to waste my energy on trying to remain calm due to their intrusion, nor do I care to expose myself to more of it. I'll take any stress the intruder caused right back on them and cut them off.
I'll save my emotional energy for people I like and care for. I'm not that much of a people person to be nice to every nut out there.

Hi, my namez: "NO, Bad Kitteh, NO!"  Whaz yurs?
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