Forum: Poser - OFFICIAL


Subject: free stuff,non-commercial only.just bloody well say so up front.

SoulTaker opened this issue on Apr 19, 2008 · 284 posts


Conniekat8 posted Thu, 24 April 2008 at 4:26 PM

*I was however being sarcastic and pointing out some some of the counterproductive flaws in the argument.  This is also another great example of only seeing the negative. *

I think I already said I'm not willing or interested in digging through negativity, looking for something positive. So, yes, this is another example of it. Am I supposed to feel bad or ashamed that I don't care to do that? Are you going to try the same thing one more time to see if my answer is going to be different?

*I wont go as far as to re-quote my post but I can say with 100% certainty that I did not "yell at"  or "put someone down"  in my quoted post.

*I wasn't refering to you only, but in addition it appears that you don't quite have a realistic view of how you come across. You don't get to be the judge of how you came across. Once something is out, all you can say, I'm sorry, I didn't intend it this way.

You admitted you were bing sarcastic. Well, sarcasam is yet another form of negativity, and often euphemistc way to work in a putdown.

But look in the mirror, long and hard. You're not exactly welcoming criticisam of your own actions and behaviors with a welcome attitude and an apology. You're being all defensive about sarcastic remarks you made intentionally.

If you want people to look past negativity, lead by example. You're not exactly looking past my negativity and trying to understand my point of view. You're being defensive and argumentative. Not any different then freebie providers act and feel when they feel overly criticized.

You said: Im pretty sure I didn't call anyone dense.  You Connie are certainly far from that. 

You're right about my not being dense, which is why aside from literal I can read implied meanings in euphemised sarcasam.
Or shal we go on playing silly word games "I never said that you said someone is dense", however, you did say I appear to be making thigs up.

Well, since you say I'm making things up and misunderstanding, can you please elaborate the meaning behind one of your sarcastic remarks, like this one: "*Clarity is the devil!  Perpetrators of evil want to sell free meshes for profit and are unappreciative of sweaters!!!!"

*Like, waht was it supposed to accomplish? Add more negativity that I don't care to try and see past for any small gems of positive? Make freebie providers more eager to share with the community (knowing people will see past an occasional mistake they make? Make them feel that people using their stuff will be respective of the rights of freebie providers?
What exactly were you trying to express? Hmm?
I'm going to play dumb here, pretend I can't read the implied meanings, and wait for your clear explanation.

You will of course lead by example see past the negativity and temperament can challenge and confrontation in my post and give me a 'bloody level headed friendly explanation', won't you?

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