It is so hard not to feel numb after news like this. But even Valerie herself would tell us somehow to look to the bright side, carry on, find another way - I dont' know exactly - and I try not to sound cliche' - but she usually tried to cheer us all up in her own way. She was definately a sparkler. I am happy we have the chance to say goodbye in this way. I think she would approve.

I kid-proofed my house but they STILL get in!!