I'd have to agree with Anniebel and suggest the Sapphire Fox hair as well.  Have you tried altering the transmap to get rid of the bangs?  I think that will get you closer to the look you want plus it can be made longer and messier and has way more volume than the Windswept Hair. 

Here's part of a wallpaper I did a few months ago for a friend who's a big fan.