Quote - I don't insist that you live your life according to my rules, please stop demanding that I live according to your rules.

I actually think this is a very common issue for people. For me, as a Christian to tell you my views is "holier than thou", "judgemental" and the like, but if I don't accept your views I am close minded.

I think this is where the circle begins. How do you convince someone you're not being judgemental without sounding judgemental?