I think some people need a reminder of what every mother taught their children. "If you can't say something nice, Don't say anything at all!" I know the original of those two threads would have eventually faded away just as the one I started on DAZ did. People gave their well wishes and eventually it just dropped away. As any thread should if instigators don't show up to start something.

Maybe the moderation team should look into measures to be used for giving "Instigators" a time out.