Been there done that ! It's hard at first but when the lawyers get involved it's even worse. The pain goes away after a while and in my case it was followed by an ememse feeling of relief.

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It looks like there's a police action in the hood - again. Hoh boy ! ! the chopper guy just called out over the horn for the guy to come out or they'd do a house to house search  - poked my head out the window and the cops are all over it. I bet they have no idea where the guy is but they're equally sure he's 'around here somewhere' . . . and  yes, it is my tax dollars at work - so ... can I get a refund ? 

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My stupid neighbor just waddled out to see if she could help 'catch the guy';  like she'd be any help. Meanhile my impossible cheesburger suprise is about done an' Im gonna eat dinner. 

sorry to hear about the divorce - things'll get better ! !