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That's a big question. This is what I use but cannot take credit for it. And would not want to spend 2 years trying to catch up to it, either. Sometimes its better to stand on the shoulders of genius...for I hope obvious reasons.

I have 2 lightsets and an FBM in my freestuff of you really want my look