I'll look into the clothing aspect, cuz where there are affectors there is a way. Just have to point them in the right direction.

At one point, I renamed the skirt part to ‘Hip’ and that allowed the thighs to affect the skirt. Unfortunately, the ‘Hip’ sphere sucked in the skirt creating a constant distortion too odd to be useful. I think the problem is that the hip sphere isn’t shaped like a hip.

 

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