As for our angle on nudity, it's really simple.

Yes, it really is.   That was largely my point.   Enforcing the TOS should not involve interpretation of the TOS on the part of moderators.   They should mean exactly the same thing to everybody here.   Plainly, however, a handful of moderators are applying idiosyncratic interpretations of the TOS.    Members are having to be extra-cautious in the use of tags, to avoid being unjustly penalised for supposedly demonstrating untagged nudity or violence, only to find that other moderators have seen fit to become ultra-pedantic in their application of the TOS, telling the same members off for using the tags too freely.  

Self-evidently, the problem here lies with the moderators and with no-one else.