FrankT - I ran the simulation. Posted are the dialogs I hurdled.  The bottom two images are frames 13, and 25, of 30 frame simlulation.  I think the dress begins to adopt the pose of V3; but is still a miss?  I did'nt Keyframe anything; I just set her pose to sitting at frame 1, when the scene had only one frame, and then added 30 frames?

operaguy - Still.