-Export options in Poser :
Make sure you selected/checked all parts of the dress and nothing else.
I have 'weld body part seams' and 'include body part names' checked. Not really always required but doesnt hurt.
Everything else is uncheched

-Import options in Poser:
all unchecked, as Frank said.

• Dont forget to save the new poser scene

• In vue - everything is unchecked except for 'import single frame'

Just done it and it all worked fine for m, I hope it works for you.

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