Quote - I don't get why the quote suggests that to you. It is explicit: - he said he would "spell it out for you"

"do I have to spell it out for you? :)

OK, if you load M4 and Near Me in Poser where does the top of Near Me's head come in relation to M4?""

That isn't the tiniest bit ambiguous as to what he's asking for, IMO.

Bill, the problem is you're an engineer and most of us are lay people. You're too literally minded when most folks just don't think that way and were never trained to think the same way as you were. You need to show a little more patience with us in that regard. I saw exactly what LukeA was asking for as well, pretty much using the same reasoning as TG did. You're focusing on the different words in that sentence than lay people focus on.

OK, if you load M4 and Near Me in Poser where does the top of Near Me's head come in relation to M4?

These are what jump out at us. You're using "Real Logic" while the rest of us "Artistic folks" use "Fuzzy Logic". When you start to operate knowing that fact, you'll come across a lot less bossy to us.