Quote - hi everyone, i am just wanting to learn how i can do wet hair, or even buy wet long female hair. can anyone help? thanks in advance. ps i have looked in the market place.

There's a couple of "wet hairs" out there.  Not sure if the most popular one is here or at DAZ3D.com.  Try looking in both spots searching for "wet hair."  They're definitely out there, saw one last week (at DAZ I think) when I was looking through different hairs.

As far as doing it yourself, you could model some using a 3D modelling application.  Or, you could try taking some hair you already have and using magnets and/or the Morph Tool (Poser 7 and up) to flatten it out a bit.  Increase specularity for a good wet look and you might get by with it.