{{{HUGS}}}  Oh Connie, I'm so sorry.  I'm heartbroken.  I can only echo what everyone hear has already said, that you were an incredible mom to Tigger.  You did everything you could have done for her.  I'm glad she was being held by you when she went.  She will always be with you.  Please take care of yourself and know that we'll still be here for you. 

Molly