I will try those, Thx U, I never though about the selecting before saving thing. I just assumed the parent had the high spot.
   anyway, thx u all very much, i will see if those things work.

edited: Nope selecting the character again and re saving did not help, i will look at the other idea.

perhap if i redo the whole thing, and then select character before saving, but i was trying to avoid that ;)