Well if Poser takes the last figure first .. why not just load the GENITALS forst, then the base figure. Conform the genitals as usual to the male and save the thing. If Poser truly starts with the last loaded forgire on load.. it should now have the character and not the genitals selected...

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You just can't put the words "Poserites" and "happy" in the same sentence - didn't you know that? LaurieA
  Using Poser since 2002. Currently at Version 11.1 - Win 10.