Thanks Rutra. I just checked the comparative chart and included Vue 6 too to see the difference with it as well. For "Select objects appear with a red wireframe" V 6 Pro and Complete say the exact same thing but I never had it this way in V 6 as you can see in the screen shot I posted.

It also says "Selection wireframe always appears on top of other objects that are in front" which is optional in Infinite, this seems to describe my issue yet it never acted this way in V 6. Could it be V 6 that was not working the 'normal' way? 

I've been with Vue 6 Pro for 2 years, I never thought something like this could happen so I didn't see any reason to try anything, I was simply upgrading the way I had when I went from Easel to Studio Pro and I chose Complete due to the price and the fact that since I wanted the eco paint it was actually the same cost as getting V 7 Pro and buying the eco paint module. 

So this still remains a mystery to me....