Ok. from my point of view you have 2 choices...
1.- you can play it cool and change your avatar an take the oportunity to AMAZE this people one again or
2.- You can fire up poser, load that koi-man shader, sit your wife in front of it, and show how much effort you put on it.

(just hopin' it works)

by the way, judging from the skin template in the VSS i couldn't imagine the mess thas has to be that koi shader

Hoping to Help
Jason Blood