My point exactly... 

That is why it is fair game.  Until people actively associate themselves with wanting to just receive a cuddly message then i see no reason why you shouldnt do what you feel like in terms of comment content - it is entirely not your fault if they get upset (as long as it isnt a trolling post).

Someone once said that "Democracy is the theory that the common people know what they want, and deserve to get it good and hard."  If the choice between checking a selection of boxes is the theory of democracy, then abide by that truism...

=)

"In every colour, there's the light.
In every stone sleeps a crystal.
Remember the Shaman, when he used to say:
Man is the dream of the Dolphin"

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