FutureFantasyDesign, you are so right.

Myself I don't have so many favs that I cannot give a real comment but a 'cookie cutter' comment is better than none.

If we want to know how to behave -what that's comme il faut, there are no better place to check than high-society France during 18th century. For instance if someone was sick, and too ill to receive visitors they still made a short visit and left their card. When the person was well again he/she could appreciate those who had been considerate...