Sorry you are also having problems.  Decided I would back off from it this evening and just play a few online games and relax.   Sometimes I can get a fresh perspective after some rest.

If all else fails, some have had success using XL Library from CP, go here if interested:
http://www.contentparadise.com/productDetails.aspx?id=11143
...and a similar XA product was released this week, go here for info and PDF download:
http://www.contentparadise.com/productDetails.aspx?id=11191

Since I'm not a content creator, just a hobbyist, this works fine for me, at least for now.   Hang in there . . .

~skylab   : )