Okay, this should work:

Start Poser.  Load the clothing by itself with nothing else in the scene.  Immediately save the clothing back in the figures library under a new name (just in case you want the superconforming original for some reason).

The clothing you saved as new clothes should not autodial when loaded.

If you happen to also use DAZ Studio, the clothing is going to superconform no matter what if the dial names are the same.  However, in Poser, re-saving it should break the link.

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