Oh that’s horrible Zhann!  Sorry to hear of your troubles. Did your sister survive the shooting? The kids, how are they doing? This is very traumatic for them, are they having counsel?

It’s just terrible that often people embroiled emotionally can’t see past the "here and now" and being blinded by the emotional haze see no tomorrow.  Unable to cope with their problems, often not even thinking of the consequences to others, they seek the simplest, most selfish and most irreversible and tragic of solutions.

My heart goes out to you and your family.