I share your disappointment about all of the new marginal quality BS fairy characters that are coming out, and all of the time and effort the merchants are expending on something I guarantee I'll never buy. But that's their choice and business decissions, and it's none of my business.

As to clothing for V4 that's not slutty, try 9MBi.com. The best clothing out there for a non-slutty Vicky.

There's quite a bit of M4 clothing over at Poserworld.com with more coming all the time. 

The reason no one supports Apollo has to do both with the figure being flakey and with politics directed toward the creator (who pissed a lot of people off a few years back.) Don't look for much more to come that not from Anton's site.

Good Luck!