I agree with Deecey, Antonio. I think hubby needs a dose of reality. Perhaps his sense of contributing to the household as breadwinner (alpha-male position) has been undermined through a series of failures, but instead of conceding his inadequacy, he makes you the repository of the problem, where actually you've been his main support.
I admire (and yet wonder about) your willingness to stay with him... he must have some really good qualities, hun.
All the best with it... I'd be elated to be making a tenth of what you do. Maybe if I pulled the finger out and actually got Jamie for V4 up into your store... lol

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