"stalkerish"...... pardon me but you sound rather kookishly paranoid, maybe too many looney feminist books.....

The vendors that Mark has stiffed deserve some kind of response from Mark on these Forums, and not just a crummy one time post about how sad he is. He was the captain of the ship, so to speak, and to just vanish into thin air is rather ratty.
Switzerland is too good for him, maybe Tijuana instead.