Take as much time as you need. Things like that really take the wind out of your sails until you heal back emotionally. We'll be here. I already put in my 2 cents in your thread about it. Just hang in there.

I cannot save the world. Only my little piece of it. If we all act together, we can save the world.--Nelson Mandela
An  inconsistent hobgoblin is the fool of little minds
Taking "Just do it" to a whole new level!