From a woman's perspective.....

You simply grew up.  Your wife should be happy that you are becoming more interested in romance instead of bad acted sex videos.

Buy her some flowers and formally ask her out on a dinner date :)

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi