Silke, the problem you have with the morphs is a known technical issue. Basically PMDs will clobber any morph grouping already present in a figure.

There are ways around this issue: you can either convert the morphs into regular injection poses, or you could create a pose that has the desired morph grouping. Neither is exactly trivial and I can't give specific instructions off the top of my head, but if this would be helpful to you, feel free to PM me for specifics :)

And yeah, rather a lot of stuff turns out to be disappointing which is why I hardly ever shop anywhere other than DAZ due to the refund policy there. I simply can't afford to take the risk of paying for something that might not meet my requirements and not have a money back guarantee.