My answer to the original poster :
Tell her to blow it out her ass!! Oh, wait... it sounds like she already did!!  And by the way, her gallery isn't the only place online to post your work. But you knew that already, so be sure to remind her of just how much she and her oh-so-precious gallery are NOT needed!
And... I really like this one from your gallery...

http://renderosity.com/mod/gallery/index.php?image_id=1962469&user_id=394664&member&np

Dasquid said:  "Oh I often like to bring up a point that is likely true, That the vast majority of individuals using max and maya are using pirated copies (most people don't have 10k, or even 5k, to just drop on a program like that) and most people actively using Poser actually bought it.  ..... (yeah I know that there are a lot of people who have bought max or maya on a student license, or they are really rich or something, but I am willing to bet that a large amount just pirate it.)"

I hear ya!

Case in point, a couple years ago when I started my own website to display my art, I let some local folks know about it through a forum for a night club called "The Art Bar". Understand right off that 9/10's of the people who frequent this place wouldn't know art if it crawled up their leg and ripped their genitals off! Yet I decided to give the heads up anyway. What this got me for a response was one person who said "Cool stuff" and another person who was obviously a 3d-purist-attention-whore. Yeah, this buttplug then goes on to berate Poser and (no shit) actually offers me a "copy" of 3dsMax right there in the public forum!!!!  When I reminded him of this fact, his reply was "What's the big deal?". Needless to say, I was left both speechless and typeless.  A purist who supports warez...... go figure :p

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