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I also have two women in my household and many more I can command to do pretty much any naughty wrist pose you want.

What do you want to see?

I just looked at my references from 3d.sk, and it seems like all the hand poses are at tension, with the fingers stretched even more than Antonia's and, more importantly, the thumb in the same plane as the other fingers. What I need is a really relaxed hand, like it would be if one shook it out and then just let it hang. (I know Antonia's fingers are too straight to be completely relaxed, but I'm actually thinking about changing that.)

You can throw in some wrist poses, if you like, but I think I've got that pretty much covered. I'm more worried about the thumb and the thumb/palm interaction.

-- I'm not mad at you, just Westphalian.