Good luck with your mom. You are right no point worrying before things truly come to be...you will need all the energy you both can muster if and when it all comes together. My best to you both.

Hard to tell really rendered from the front. I imagined it as something that could be used in either place really though it was always an image of the figure on knees and hands in profile with the udder in place where a cow would have it. That way you get a feel for the weight of it pulling down when milk laden thus the "weight" morphs (think stretch marks when full). Also, I have a toon cow and this udder would also work double service for that especially if morphable.