josterD opened this issue on Jul 18, 2010 ยท 41 posts
SamTherapy posted Sun, 18 July 2010 at 12:36 PM
Quote - This is the result of us boys being separated from girls when we were in school. There is always this boys group vs the girls group. Even if we are not physically separated, we are mentally separated. If you take a look on the kids in school, very few boys and girls hang out together. No wonder many boys don't understand women and vice versa when they grow up.
This results to a predatory or parasitic behavior toward one another.
The media and political groups have brainwashed us to believe that we don't need one another. The truth is we do and if we just take the effort to just to communicate without preconditions to the other person, man and woman can make great achievements.
For example, there is some evidence that more women finish high school and college than men. They say its because women develop their language skills much earlier than men for we are much more interested with physical activities like sports and playing.
If that is the case, then instead of hiring more teachers and making more schools and repeat the same mistake, make boys and girls study buddies!
In kindergarden or in elementary schools, teach boys and girls to watch out for each other. Make sure one gets home safe after school. Involve the parents to watch out also with their kid's study buddies. Share each other's lunch food. Test each other's knowledge in a subject like one creates a mock up test which the other will answer and then switch. Teach them to encourage one another and teach them how to communicate.
For a long time I was clueless on how to communicate to women. I thought I needed some pickup line or some joke but it is actually just ask questions about her day, her life and her opinions. Young kids can do this to each other too. This will build their self confidence and develop the patience to listen attentively.
Just imagine the possibilities. Don't you all agree?
In most cases, Brit boys and girls aren't segregated at school.
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