Hi SmallFry,
To answer your questions,

1. You'll need to set up the Toon effect on both the shaders as well as in the render settings. Use the "set cel lighting model" from the Edit drop-down in the assembly room to make things easier.
2. For eyelashes, use the override option in the assembly room. Basically, after you set up the Toon shaders, select your model and look under the Effects tab. You'll see the override options there. Just select the shading domain you want to change and decrease the line size to .001.
   Good luck!
   JT