I really agree with markschum’s suggestions. Take advantage of the situations. In a bookstore or library talk about books; in a supermarket, talking about the high prices can get most people going etc. You may get only a one word response or you may get a pleasant conversation. The point is to keep at it and don’t get discouraged. In “my day,” people didn’t walk around tethered to electronic gadgets so I can see how that would make things harder. Wait until the person on the cellie has finished their call and mention that you’re thinking of buying one and how do they like theirs, the carrier, the rates etc. People love to talk about their jobs, positive or negative. You can ask them how they like working at company X or that you’re thinking of applying there. Talk about what’s in the news avoiding religion or politics.

A lot of women are going to be wary of talking to strange men, no getting around that, but they probably feel more comfortable in a setting like a bookstore or supermarket rather than on the street. Pay attention to your appearance. People are probably going to feel more comfortable talking to a neat, well groomed stranger. Carry a book or newspaper and read while sitting at the bus stop – people may ask what you’re reading.. Ask them about their pet if they’re with a dog or cat. Talk to older people – many of them are probably eager to tell their story to a young person who seems genuinely interested in listening to them. Volunteer at a senior center – you’ll get lot’s of practice talking to people who really need someone to talk to a lot of the time. Ditto the local Red Cross, food bank etc. You’ll be in a situation where you are in a natural position to talk to people instead of trying to start random conversations on the street.

 

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