OP is not a troll.  he's just trying to learn things.  trolls are users who flout or ignore the
hierarchy in which other users perceive themselves.  it's not a good idea to do the latter IMVHO,
as it trivialises the concept that some users may want recognition and respect for their seniority.
it's something they heard all their lives (show some respect for one's elders), hence they've
come to believe it.  OP has never disrespected anyone, nor has he been rude in any way AFAIK.