yep ..tried those lovehandles..didn't help/
so far, postwork is by far the easiest solution.
i will check out those magnet tutorials. i need t learn them. I have a couple of products i bought that are basically magnets. those are pretty hard to use too. Stuff goes all over and its near impossibel to get it back once you throw the mesh all out of whack

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