The point of my post wasn't to facilitate the pointing of fingers, it was to maybe make people think before they post; not just in this thread, but EVERY thread.  I don't want to end up locking a thread that has had members opening up to each other, but I will if it degenerates...it'll be the hardest thing I've done, so far, on staff at Renderosity, and done with much heartbreak, but I'll do it. 
Basically, if this were a discussion in a diner with the person across from you, would you say what you're going to post?  So far, this thread has been THAT discussion, with very few exceptions.  Nothing would make me more proud of this community than for it to stay at that level of discussion. 

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