Seems pretty straightforward to me - Cyberwoman wants to be able to prevent selected lights from having any effect on selected objects. I've wished for that for a long time too, and it's a standard feature in any good 3D program. Oops, I mean any good 3D program aside from Poser. ;-)

No way to do it as far as I know of, but it sure as hell would make dealing with Poser's finicky lights alot easier.

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