BR's guide to settings is very nice.
Its good to relate them to things we know, more like the manual should be.

After my first attempt, I am now applying settings such as outlined in BRs guide. the results are amazing, other than the fact I keep forgetting to change the hand that is resting against the leg...there is no room for the cloth to land on the leg and collides with the hand.. thus it appears the hand is going through the cloth.

Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle, 1854