Great to read your apology! Very cool 

Perhaps the easiest way to make the Wings a 1-click trick is get get them set up the way you like and then "re-save" it to your library. This will record all your current settings and apply them the next time you load it from the library. Now onto the problem.

I think, what you're saying is the wings look too solid and flat, like cardboard cutouts. Here's how to fix that.

What you want is some texture to them. Apply a texture map to them, but also note that there is a Map Strength dial in the Material Room. You do not have to set the strength to 100%. Ease that dial back a bit to keep the wings kinda etherial looking. Also, (very important) assign a bump map to them. Again, the "Bump" has a map strength dial, go easy on raising that dial setting. If the Wings came with textures, there'll also be a bump map.

Next look at the "Transparency". The Wings should be a little bit transparent to wards the tips. If the wings have different parts (which they do) you can dial in a little bit of transparency.

Once you have the wings looking just the way you want them, re-save them to the library.

BTW, the image you've posted looks great! A little attention to the wings and you'll knock it out of the park!  ; )

da elf

 Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things!  ; )