Sex sells. Guys like to look at sexy things, girls like to look at pretty things.  Oftentimes the pretty things have a sexy tone to them.

I don't use Poser to "live out fantasies", I have no delusion that I'm a middle aged fat woman who likes to use a computer and make pretty pictures. I don't live vicariously through the images I upload.

"It is good to see ourselves as others see us. Try as we may, we are never
able to know ourselves fully as we are, especially the evil side of us.
This we can do only if we are not angry with our critics but will take in good
heart whatever they might have to say." - Ghandi