Trying that, and also trying to turn the air dampening low so that the cloth has more effect from the wind.  Is it better to run the simulation with the pose/dynamic cloth and then do a new simulation for the wind force.  I have the figure turning a few degrees to one side (less  than 10) so maybe that is cancelling the windforce?

 

The settings I'm using are close to what she has, but I have the cone moved and rotated to hit her from the side.