Ok any way to say magantize V4 to get her to collide against the mesh this way, Say V4 mesh is the magnet, or area of v4 I select, and set a target to the other mesh, or is this one of those things i am gonna have to tweak a bit on the other mesh as the frames progress?

 

Thanx for your answer I will try this out and see if it will work as I would hope it will. Again thanx.