Good grooming, clean semi fashionable clothes, clean hair, deoderant, light on the cologne - don't bathe in it, clean teeth, fresh breath - try gum. 

Get out of the house. Do something in groups, take a class, go to church (or other place of worship) Don't use pick up lines. Talk with the woman a few times before asking her out. Talk about real world things, not poser. Don't mention vicky or nviatwas. You can share that later if you 2 hook up and you know if she's secure with you looking at naked women (no matter how fake they maybe). Don't push too hard. My DFL is single again after 48 years and has scared off more women by being to eager and I don't mean physically either.

Don't be afraid to let friends set you up.

You say you are old, but then use the term girl. Are you looking at much younger women? If so, you might try women more your age. Otherwise you might not want to call them girls. Women might not like to be called old, but they don't like to be called childs either.

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