and just to say...I worked at a very large university for quite a few years, and still work around a lot of women..all ages... I'm overweight, very average or less looking, out of shape, old 60+ ..but , believe me, if you're listening to what women are telling you, they will be interested in you. You just need to be honest, polite, friendly. Don't act like a wad. Don't be a poser.

Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it.
Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together.
All things connect......Chief Seattle, 1854