Forum: Poser - OFFICIAL


Subject: OT: How exactly do you get a GF when you're old and unexperienced?

tebop opened this issue on May 05, 2011 ยท 137 posts


moriador posted Sat, 07 May 2011 at 3:27 AM

RobynsVeil... well put, indeed!

I wasn't sure how to say what you said without sounding rude.

Yeah, there's some strange language surrounding each gender's approach to partnering. Men "get" girlfriends, as though they're pursuing objects not relationships. Women "find" husbands, as though the men are lost without them. Sexist in both cases. Subtle language differences affect how we perceive a problem. We need to reframe our thinking.

Then again, it's not just in Poserland that we "make" friends... though we probably won't pose them, unless they're very drunk and we want revenge for a malicious Facebook tag.


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